Happy New Year! It’s time to make Ch-ch-ch-ch-Changes!
David Bowie’s song , Ch-ch-ch-ch-Changes, Turn and face the strain, Ch-ch-Changes…is playing in my head. Now, anyone that knows me is reading this entry and is shocked that I would even know about David Bowie’s songs, especially my husband who is a musician and thinks that I am musically challenged in every way possible. I would have to agree with him. 🙂
Because it’s a new year I wanted to share some interesting facts with you about job searchers and how they think when they find themselves without a job or in a career transition.
1) They always visualize themselves in last place in the job search race.
Ok what does t his mean? It means that they feel that because they are unemployed that they have to take $10-20K less.
It means that they feel rejected, devalued, lost, and most of all insecure about their skillset. They will make a lot of concessions to hiring managers just to get their next job. It’s normal to feel this way but it won’t help your job search.
I ask my clients to do the following to overcome this type of thinking and behavior.
1) Visualize yourself in 1st place in your job search race.
What do I mean by this? When I was a kid I loved to play sports. I wasn’t very good but I wanted to be. I tried out for every sport in elementary and middle school. I loved to run track, play baseball and basketball.
I had a great attitude but I was an average player. I wasn’t a fast runner but I had a lot of spirit. I loved to swim and joined the Gilroy Gators swim team. Once again I was average. But when I stepped onto the block to dive into the water, I always visualized myself finishing in 1st place. When I started running in the race and passed the baton to my running partner I always visualized myself finishing in first place. I ran as hard as I could. I never finished in first place in sports but that didn’t matter because I always believed in myself and never gave up.
So what does this mean to you and your job search? Don’t visualize yourself in last place when you start your job search.
1) Know that you deserve and can get the right job for you at the right time.
2) Know that you will get the right salary and earn your market value.
3) Know that you will find the right hiring manager and team to work with at your new company.
4) Know that their is a company out there waiting for you and ready to make you an offer.
5) Know that you can reject job offers.
6) Know that you are interviewing them and that you deserve to work with smart, kind, intelligent, professional and compassionate people.
7) Don’t give up!!!
I wish you success in 2011!
Rebecca, Career Coach/Advisor and your partner in this Job Search Race!